Is it okay?

I dunno. That's up to you. My husband and I waited till the morning after our wedding. We were both virgins. I think we're both glad that we waited. VERY glad. There's no comparing each other to former lovers, no feelings of inadequacy. Just learning together as we go.

I think that just the way that my husband and I are wired we would have had severe emotional repercussions if we had chosen to have sex before we were married. I know my sister does.

But...that's my two cents. It's really up to you. No one can tell you one way or the other, it's a choice you and your partner have to make together, and prepare for together.

Is it okay?

Asking if it's okay is like asking the prices in a trendy botique. If you gotta ask, you probably can't afford it. By your asking the question I would say to you no.

But as for me: I have no regrets or guilt whatsoever about it. Not one.

Usually no - especially if you're younger.
Acceptance from your peers? - don't be a kiss & tell.

A more important question - Do you like him/her?
After sex - what are you going to do with the rest for the day?
Life is better if you're with someone you like to be with.

I'd say yes, unless it's something you're not sure about. It's better if you're sure for your first time. Doubt will rob the experience of any real enjoyment.

I dunno. That's up to you. My husband and I waited till the morning after our wedding. We were both virgins. I think we're both glad that we waited. VERY glad. There's no comparing each other to former lovers, no feelings of inadequacy. Just learning together as we go.

Awsome!!

INMH, if your an adult, then its ok do do anything that is not unlawful or hurtful to others.

IT is ok to have Premarital Sex?

Of course it's not okay! That's what makes it so much fun.

If you're not feeling guilt and shame, you did it wrong.

really, its fun?how come if you get pregnat and the guy run away?what you will do?

really, its fun?how come if you get pregnat and the guy run away?what you will do?

Well, the consequences might not be, but the sneaking around sure is.

so we are talking about pre marital sex huh??? sounds pretty exciting to me.... i think it will be good for experiece an satisfaction in your married life... after all we got only one life of which we know of...so people have all the sex that you can.....!!!!!

really, its fun?how come if you get pregnat and the guy run away?what you will do?

That's where birth control and safe sex comes in...if you're going to enjoy the forbidden fruits, then you might want to keep them fresh.

~Zoo